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| Have Freemasons Gone Mad?Many of our Masonic brethren have forgotten the fundamental meaning of what it means to be a Freemason in their daily lives. If our brethren are taught nothing else in the course of becoming Masons, they are (or should be) taught the importance of civility, gentlemanly behavior, and brotherly love and affection extended to Masons and non-Masons alike. Judging by the conduct of certain individuals, they have brought within the Fraternity the querulous and litigious habits of modern society, poisoning the well of brotherly love.  We are taught to use the trowel as an instrument to spread the cement 
        of brotherly love and affection, thereby uniting us into a sacred band 
        or society of friends and brothers, among whom no contention should ever 
        exist, except that noble contention or rather emulation of who best can 
        work and best agree. I am saddened to observe that certain men in Lodges 
        all across In contrast, looking back 200 years, we should note that the concept 
        and practice of civility and polite manners and behavior was the hallmark 
        of our 18th century brethren. George Washington, even as a young man, 
        is famous for having copied the 110 rules of civility for conduct with 
        his fellowman. The Fraternity was concerned with promoting civility and 
        was in its own way a school for how to be a gentleman in one’s interactions 
        with men of all classes of society. They were taught to practice the domestic 
        and public virtues, to be tactful in their conversations, Where have we gone wrong? I do not claim to have a glib answer to that question, but it seems to me that each Lodge must put its house in order, and urgently study once again the fundamentals of Freemasonry as a guide for living, to be applied to daily life. Otherwise, we will destroy ourselves from within, and we will not “be there” for the next generation thirsting for what Freemasonry has to offer.  Reprinted by permission from | 
| Honolulu Lodge Trestle board October 2002 Page 3 |